Is venting a good way to deal with anger? | Jennifer Parlamis | TEDxGVAGrad
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In this insightful TED talk, a researcher discusses her experiences with anger management through a personal story involving her husband and a stroller. She explains the fundamental attribution error, revealing how we often misinterpret others’ actions based on internal factors rather than external circumstances. The speaker explores the common belief in venting as a way to alleviate anger, only to uncover through research that it often reinforces the feelings of anger rather than releasing them. Instead, she advocates for activities that reduce physiological arousal, like meditation and yoga, as effective ways to manage anger. She concludes with practical tips on regulating anger and highlights the importance of understanding our emotions rather than letting them control us, ultimately promoting healthier interactions and relationships.